From the monthly archives:

September 2009

Ask the question, then change your life

by Jan on September 23, 2009

‘Coaches never give advice’ I was taught when I trained. Well, I’m going to forget about that completely for a a moment. I have some advice for you, and it’s unequivocal. It is: Question, challenge, everything; dispute the status quo. Question the inevitability of the way you live your life. Ask, ‘why is it like [...]

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A habit, not a hair shirt

by Jan on September 14, 2009

These days we all know about the ‘s’ word. ‘Should’. As soon as we hear ourselves say it, we grin, half-apologetically, shrug maybe. We know that ‘want to’ ‘need to’ ‘long to’ are more PC in this self-developing world. Certainly if ‘should’ is accompanied by a sense of dread, or anxiety or blockage, it pretty clear indicates [...]

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